One of the characteristics of a wise man is that he knows when his present line of action has failed him and it is time to abandon it for something fresh. While others continue to follow the same futile course, from stubborn habit, he recognises its uselessness and seeks another way. Looking For: loving, caring, faithfulIs God really testing us? Does God enjoy tormenting me? And yet all I can do is live like this, there really is no choice but to carry this burden, for we know that things like this would happened if we give our love a chance, but what is love with out any hardships and trials, for it is in this kind of test that a relationship is measured, how long are we going to hold on? To what would this relationship lead to?